The Angels in Our Lives

 The smile on my face and the feelings are indescribable; this is what gratitude does to you. Your heart and mind align with light. I know you feel this too as you read and reflect on your friendships. ❤️

Today, I want to talk about friends. Friends are the angels we have on Earth, and I am deeply grateful for the ones in my life. They have brought joy, support, and companionship, making my journey richer and more meaningful.

I have a few friends in my circle who have been incredibly kind and supportive. One particular friend, whom I met nine years ago in Yola during my university days, has become like a sister to me. We share everything with each other, from our temperaments to our happiest and saddest moments. She now has three kids, and I am immensely grateful for the bond we have shared for so long. Despite the distance, we remain close, always talking and supporting each other.

I still have a friend I met in senior secondary school. She is my ride or die, flawless, kind, and sweet, but can be brutal when it comes to injustice. My sailor and entrepreneur, we learned and played basketball together. We are far apart yet close at heart.

Another friend I cherish is someone I met while working during the holidays in university to save money for studies and personal care. This friend has been a constant presence in my life, offering support and encouragement. I hold this friendship very close to my heart, and I am thankful for the connection we share.

Another friend who has a kind heart that is indescribable. I call him sweetheart, and I promise to stop when he gets married. We met during our university days. He always has my back and supports my little projects whenever I come up with any. Anyone close to him cherishes him. Guy, I dey for you. Thank you for your kindness; you make the world a better place.

I also have a friend who have helped me in times of need. One such friend accommodated me when I needed a place to stay in Abuja. We met in school and, despite the slight age difference, we became friends. She was there for me, and I am grateful for her generosity and kindness.

To my very own fashion designer, steeze lady, and my wardrobe consultant, I mean most of my wears, shoes, and other items are from her. What are friends for if we don’t patronize them? This one dey me steeze even on loan, lol. 😆 God bless your business, my dear friend turned sister.

Sometimes, I am reminded of how important friends are when they reach out unexpectedly. For example, a friend called to check on me, as we hadn’t spoken in a while. She asked what I have been up to these days, and I mentioned that I am blogging about gratitude. She said, "Oh! The topic is narrow." But by the time I explained it to her, she was eager to read what I had written. She even suggested I write about our call, but I told her I already had a topic about the beautiful weather we experienced today. I shared with her my recent gratitude blog posts, and she was excited to read them. She has always been supportive—guess what, she is far older than me, and I call her 'Mummy.' Her call made me feel appreciated and loved.

At the end of the call, I felt so much gratitude that I decided to write about it.

Friendships, like all relationships, teach us valuable lessons about ourselves and life. Even the fleeting ones leave an impact, helping us grow and evolve. I believe that friends come and go, but each one plays a crucial role in our lives. They are the building blocks of our experiences, helping us become who we are.

To all the friends out there, thank you for being part of my journey. Your presence has made my life brighter and more meaningful. I am deeply grateful for each of you.

Friendship is about how you make the next person feel with your words and actions.

What has been your experience with friendship? How have your friends impacted your life? Please share your thoughts in the comments below.